I remind myself that it's safe here. This little corner of the universe is a safe place for my heart to open up and bleed upon paper.
And so... candles are lit and I watch the flame flicker. I debate touching my fingers in the wax like I used to when my parents weren't looking, because
it was brave. and bad.
I liked the mask it created upon my fingertips. I'd peel it off little by little in amazement of the process.
And so... candles are lit and I watch the flame flicker. I debate touching my fingers in the wax like I used to when my parents weren't looking, because
it was brave. and bad.
I liked the mask it created upon my fingertips. I'd peel it off little by little in amazement of the process.
I've thought back to that little girl many times lately. Her actions still hold #secretmessages within them awaiting discovery. At times, I see her so clearly sitting under a tree,
hiding.
She often crossed her fingers, wishing and hoping that nobody would find her because she needed time to reckon with herself. She tried to convince herself that she wasn't evil for thinking such wild thoughts. She traced her secrets onto branches.
Somewhere along the way her heart was silenced. The battle was lost.
"Hearts are deceitful and wicked," they told her. The Bible says so. Her heart was the reason she was evil. The heart couldn't be trusted.
She learned not to trust herself. She learned to ignore her heart.
She became what they said she should become. Putting on the costume of "should and shouldn't" she clung to them tightly. This worked for a while, until fingers got sore. She couldn't hold on any longer and the only one left to catch the fall once her grip gave way...was me.
The heart she'd tried so hard to ignore. Now we are left with much un-learning but the outlook is bright.
Somewhere along the way her heart was silenced. The battle was lost.
"Hearts are deceitful and wicked," they told her. The Bible says so. Her heart was the reason she was evil. The heart couldn't be trusted.
She learned not to trust herself. She learned to ignore her heart.
She became what they said she should become. Putting on the costume of "should and shouldn't" she clung to them tightly. This worked for a while, until fingers got sore. She couldn't hold on any longer and the only one left to catch the fall once her grip gave way...was me.
The heart she'd tried so hard to ignore. Now we are left with much un-learning but the outlook is bright.
I love you.
ReplyDeleteAnd your wild, crazy, beautiful heart.
It's totally mutual my friend!
DeleteI am un-learning with you dear friend.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it wonderful how we have a tribe traveling along with us. Blessed!
DeleteThat little girl is teaching you so much, and looking to you for redemption. I'm sorry for what she went through and excited for how you are breaking free now. xoxo
ReplyDeleteI'm excited to have you joining me along the way, cheering me on and sharing glasses of cabernet.
Deletei just want to squeeze you so tight. <3
ReplyDeleteYour embraces are divine.
Deleteand so we step forward, re-finding ourselves untainted by the words that never belonged to us.
ReplyDeleteOh I love this. Yes! Thank you.
DeleteThis post makes my heart beat quick because I resonate with every word. I wish I could rend the should/should not costume with one strong r.i.p.
ReplyDeleteP.S. I just found you via SMS. I am so glad I did.
DeleteSo glad to have you joining my restless journey. It's wonderful to meet travelers along the way!
DeleteRaw, divine, precious, real, beautiful. Keep embracing YOU. Hearts lead us to divine source, always, always. Explore within like a bird flying.
ReplyDeleteYour comment means much to me. Thrilled to have connected with you so long ago. You are such an inspiring goddess.
Delete"She learned not to trust herself. She learned to ignore her heart. She became what they said she should become."
ReplyDeleteThis makes me want to cry, because "she" is me, too. I am slowly, s l o w l y, learning how to trust myself and listen to my heart again, after 30 years of not.
p.s. wandered over from #SMS... love your blog!
DeleteThank you Beth!! For wandering here and for your comment. I think I'm super sensitive about it today and just hearing the sweet words that someone else understands... ~sigh~
Deletehallelujah and amen! love this. smiling so wide.
ReplyDeleteYou are wonderful! Your comments perk me up. So much!
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